Sorry...forgot to add another online conversation to further show a single mother's redheaded life online:
CPAMAN:...what does it mean?
ME: " Noble"
CPAMAN: ok thanks
ME: you are welcome "handsome"...
ME: ...need a translation for that too?
CPAMAN: no, not yet
ME: see...J_ there traslated it further gaelic in the chatroom...it suits you...?
ME: but then, so does brat
CPAMAN: lol oh is that so?
CPAMAN: if I were there I would sit down next to you and tease you
ME: hmmmm... if you could catch me
CPAMAN: oh I could
ME: you COULD T R Y
CPAMAN: I can run well and I am fast...no contest
ME: but sir I do contest
CPAMAN: lol aw sure you do....hot stuff
ME: oh oh...speaking of "hot" ...I see female trouble in the gaelic room for you...
CPAMAN: I dont know this person who the heck is it?
ME: like I know?....you see this is why I hang around old retired men
CPAMAN: why?
ME: their 'female troubles" are in the kitchen or living room of their homes...or lost in a bottle of viagra...and there is no pressure...just chat
CPAMAN: oh...?
CPAMAN: I dont have female troubles
ME: then you must be gay....
CPAMAN: ...says who?
ME: ok back to this female in the room...did you sleep with her and not call her the next day? You men always f*** that one up....
CPAMAN: honey I dont know who the heck this is
CPAMAN: and I dont sleep around
ME: It's Catherine, not honey and maybe you just forgot....?...
CPAMAN: you...?...hell no...this woman?... prolly
CPAMAN: ha ha
ME: hopefully not ... I would feel very bad about that for her...
CPAMAN: yeah this coming from you the love em and leave em woman
ME: ah yes the reputation precedes me I see
CPAMAN: lol oh does it?
ME: There is an explanation for everything - and you are safe tucked away in your large city thousands of miles from California...
CPAMAN: is that so?
ME: you are so teasing me..
CPAMAN: lol you are adorable you know
ME: well my mother thinks so, bit for the record I only stop seeing men when they think hurting me is ok...
CPAMAN: now who would want to hurt you?
ME: the men In California are very different...through my travels I have discovered this...
CPAMAN: then for your son's sake, get the hell out of Dodge woman!
ME: he has his friends and his father lives here...
COPAMAN: I know babe
ME: I just pray for a change...a miracle of sorts
CPAMAN: aye I hear you
CPAMAN: and regretfully I must go darlin...kissing your cheek softly...have a good night..be safe and well
CPAMAN: want to come to bed with me?
ME: lol...no comment
CPAMAN: had a long tiring day but I came online just to see you
ME: I need to go to bed too...I have a big day tomorrow
CPAMAN: try to rest some Catherine you cannot solve it all in one day.
ME: I know...it's just hard some days CPAMAN: promise me you will try to sleep well....and smile for me
ME: lol I'll try....night...slan mo chroi
CPAMAN: If I could be there to solve it with you I would, but know we are good friends
CPAMAN: so slan mo cushla
ME: damn you are getting good at this gaelic stuff...
CPAMAN: nah...it's just your influence...xo
CPAMAN: please take care
ME: will do... sleep well
So some safe online support helps, just don't get to caught up into it. A little online flirting can help on a Friday night just as long as you realize you are in non-matching jamies that have bleach stains and the guy is just hanging out probably on his 8th beer.
More importantly...you are home with your kids and they love you...
Hugs,
C
PS. My imaginery lover is romantic...
